If you’re someone who’s full of anger, pain and suffering - this letter is for you.

Before I really improved at life -I was full of petty feelings.

I had all of these wild emotions surging inside me that I didn’t know what to do.

This was before I read any self-help/self-improvement content.

I didn’t understand nor I knew any concept about self-transformation.

And that’s why I’m writing todays letter.

It’s for those who used to be liked me. Full of anger and don’t know what to do about it.

Before I tell you how to overcome these petty feelings - let’s first understand why they exist.

Men full of anger. What is the cause?

The major cause for men having rage within is injustice within society.

From a very young age we were taught to care for women with love and compassion.

But in the modern world - women are taught to disrespect and disdain men.

And thus, it creates a generation full of men who dislike women and lack brotherhood.

Both sexes compete non-stop to proudly say who is better - instead of working with each other and compliment each others strength.

Men and women are divided.

Even though you might think this is insignificant - society as a whole functions best when both sexes work together.

But what happens if you make them hate each other?

You teach them hatred and malevolence.

Ask any young man what he thinks about women.

Ask any young woman what he thinks about men.

It’s always negative.

Misogyny, gender inequality etc..

If what the young hear is all about injustice - it’s given most men are going to be full of anger and hatred.

I’m not saying all men are violent. I’m saying these feelings are normal. Because the condition within society within this era is not normal.

It’s petty and full of injustice.

So I want you to understand.

It’s completely normal to have these feelings if it came from societies injustice.

That’s the macro perspective.

What about the micro perspective?

That’s the next part.

Some people are just meant to lose

I’m not saying you should lose or never achieve success.

I’m saying some people are just meant to lose.

I had this one particular acquaintance who would always take the chance to belittle and humiliate me when possible.

Most people I know are jealous of my competence.

I mostly get attention even when I don’t want to.

I get things done that makes people say “wow”.

But I never let it get to my head.

Because once you do - your downfall starts.

So what am I saying?

I’m saying there are people who will hate you for no reason.

You could be you but still hate you.

Just because you’re better - most men are going to hate you.

And that’s petty.

And that’s probably you as well.

Because you don’t understand what it took for someone to get there.

Competence is rarely given.

It’s always earned.

You can never teach someone how to be competent.

That’s why when someone outwardly displays competence - you will get jealous.

Because you don’t understand what it took for that someone to be that good.

Let’s be honest.

All of us have petty feelings.

The difference is whether you’ve solved yours or not.

Most people are petty for no reason.

• They will hate you because your better.

• They will hate you because you’re good looking.

• They will hate you because x and y person is friendly to you.

I’ve experienced it multiple times.

Envy and jealousy

Most petty people have petty reasons.

That’s why they can’t overcome it.

They just want someone to be below them so they can feel better.

But I want to give you another note.

These people who are petty are very good at hiding it.

It always shows in small ways most people will never notice.

It comes from being passive aggressive, laughing too hard on a joke that isn’t even funny (directed on you) and straight up being conflict forward when given the chance.

You will get crushed by these petty people if you are not liked by many.

If you are liked and respected - these people wouldn’t be able to touch you.

Because trying to turn a crowd against a respected person will backfire.

People will always have petty feelings - like envy and jealousy. It’s hard wired into the human consciousness.

The difference is between those who overcome this programming and those who don’t.

This is also one of the main reasons why attractive people are targeted for no reason.

Simply because they look better, people try to condemn attractive people so they can feel better.

If you didn’t know - attractive people also live life very different. If they suck at social skills, they will be bullied non-stop and hated for no reason just because they look good.

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Playing the game is part of the game.

You may hate people attacking you for no reason, but it’s your fault if you never learn how to retaliate effectively.

So long as you continue to believe all people are good- the longer your misery will be.

If you suck at being a politician and you are good looking - other people will always try to find ways to crush you for petty feelings.

Attractive people are often alone and can’t find genuine friends because often times- the people around them aren’t that genuine.

Not to mention how others create groups just to bully them. The drama you see online where rich girl bullies pretty poor girl is true.

You just haven’t witnessed it on men.

Being petty at what cost?

Well being petty is a miserable way to live life.

Instead of you working hard to become a better version of yourself- you will just blame other people and the government so you can whine and complain about it while never taking any real responsibility.

It’s a trade most people make because most people are lazy.

Being petty sucks.

It’s painful and neglectful.

You hurt the ones you care because of your constant negativity and air of superiority that’s fake.

I’m telling you this to convince you: “being petty sucks”.

It’s all downsides and never upsides.

If you’re a petty person - read till the end. I’ll tell you how to overcome these feelings.

Become the best version of yourself.

No this isn’t a platitude.

Seriously this is a real lesson.

Once you become a better version through effort and sacrifice - you start to value hard work and those who’ve earned it.

You become repulsed by those who always complain but never act on their potential.

When I was young - I also had all sorts of petty feelings.

I envied my rich friends because every time summer vacation would come -they get to travel and I stay stuck at home.

I didn’t realize it back then but this was petty.

Because I was comparing myself to my peers. I wanted to blame my parents for being poor.

I wanted to but I couldn’t.

Deep down I wanted to go as well. But it would just be too expensive for us.

I grew up having just enough.

Well I’m glad because I was never entitled to such things.

If I grew up having everything - I would probably never try at becoming better.

I’m telling you this because you most likely do as well.

You feel the urge to blame anyone other than yourself for the life you have right now.

It’s true that parents need to give their children ample life - but it’s also true that if you never take responsibility - the pattern will continue to repeat itself.

That’s why the cure for having these petty feelings is to take responsibility.

You might’ve not caused all these trouble and suffering you have right now - but you must be accountable for the life you have right now.

You cannot always wish.

You must act.

You must change.

You must become better.

How to improve yourself.

Improving yourself is easy.

You just need to prioritize 3 things.

Your mind, your body and your spirit.

• If you only work on your mind- you will become a coward.

• If you only work on your body - you will become a strong fool.

That is why you need to maintain equilibrium/balance.

Well the process is never balanced because you have to prioritize 1 at a time.

But the process remains the same: “Become a better person”

How do you become a better person?

You break out of your comfort zone and shell.

• If you don’t work out - start working out.

• If you don’t pray - start praying.

• If you don’t read books- start reading books.

People always complicate growth like it’s an engineer building a new rocket to reach Mars.

No, it’s pretty simple.

Just do things that will benefit your future self.

This means:

• Reading books

• Journaling

• Working out/Going to the gym

• Doing daily walks

• Talking with strangers

• etc..

It’s simple not easy.

You don’t need the best plan or the most efficient routine.

You just need to start.

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I’ve implemented the lessons from the guide as well. Especially the part where you write down your mission.

I will have my own version of this discipline guide. I’ll tackle about energy, testosterones and the biology side of discipline.

Until then, I leave you with these resource that I vouch for.

That’s all for this week.

See you next time

-Noat

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